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3 Tips To Make Your Engagement Shoot Personal

May 6, 2020

Tips for Planning your Engagement Session

I love engagement shoots. No, really, I LOVE engagement shoots. They’re taken during such a fleeting window of time between the proposal and the wedding — a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to capture a couple as they are then. Some of my favorite photos that I’ve ever taken have been during engagement sessions! And my most favorite thing of all is when couples use this opportunity to do something or go somewhere that is personal and unique to them. If you are planning your engagement session, I would highly suggest that you customize your shoot to reflect who you are. Not only will the shoot be more fun for you if you feel like it has a connection to your relationship, it will also produce photos that are much more meaningful to you in the years to come!

In my attempt to help my clients create an engagement shoot that is reflective of them, I always ask them to fill out a questionnaire that helps me get to know them better. It often leaves us with a number of creative ideas that are unique and fun.

If you are engaged and planning on taking engagement photos, I have three suggestions to make your images just as personal as they are pretty!

Time for a little brainstorming session! Where do you and your fiancé like to go together? Where have you been together? Where did you meet or have your first date? Do you have access to a location that is special or unique? Often just thinking through these questions and jotting down your answers will help you think of a cool location that hadn’t even occurred to you! In the photo below, Shelby & Nic chose an overlook of the Nashville skyline for their engagement session because it was the site of where Nic proposed to Shelby. Jasmine & Chris’ favorite place to vacation is NYC and they couldn’t imagine not having photos taken of them in their element. And Hillary & Jim had the perfect idea of shooting in their very own yard… their first home together!

What do you like to do together? Do you have hobbies or activities that you share? Sometimes when I ask this, people think it has to be some adventurous or unusual activity in order to qualify. Not true! The ways you choose to spend time together are usually a big part of why you “click” as a couple. So no matter what they are, bringing those pastimes into your engagement shoot is a perfect way to make it more personal. This can be something as simple as cooking or riding bikes together. Or it can be something as noteworthy as piloting a plane.

I’m a firm believer that pets are part of the family, and you can’t get much more personal than that! Oodles of my clients agree, and it’s almost MORE common for me to shoot an engagement session that includes a dog than one that doesn’t. I love the fact that these photos not only document the couple, but also the beloved pets that are such a huge part of their lives! Below are only a few of the engagement shoots I’ve photographed that have been made more personal and special by the inclusion of pets in a portion of the shoot.

I hope that I’ve helped you to think of some simple ways to turn your engagement session into a fun, personal photo shoot. Your wedding will be here before you know it, and then you’ll be married for the rest of your lives. Enjoy your engagement, and make the most of your engagement photos! You won’t regret it!


  1. […] 5 — Express yourselves An engagement session is a perfect opportunity to get beautiful, flattering photos taken of the two of you together just being your unique selves. This is your chance to capture your connection to one another and to express yourselves. For some suggestions about how to make your engagement shoot personal, check out the blog post I shared on that very topic! […]